If you have ever gone crabbing or watched the Deadliest Catch on television you have observed the “crab in a basket syndrome.” The crab basket is full to the brim with little orange-clawed crustaceans, each of whom is awaiting an inevitable death. If you watch closely, you will see as one crab reaches the edge making a valiant escape effort, another crab will pull it back into the basket. “If I can’t have success, then neither can you.”
Understanding this phenomenon can be beneficial for you. The concept transcends crabbing and can be applied to life and business. If you feel this is happening you can prevent yourself from getting “pulled down” in the workplace. We are all trying to survive the dangers of the basket, come out unscathed!
“Crabs” are critics. Our climb to the top is characterized by risk, reward, setbacks and determination. Let’s face it, not all the crabs are going to be happy about your success, or like you for it. The great thing about success however is, it does not need or depend upon approval from the crabs.
Joseph Addison said, “It is ridiculous for any man to criticize the works of another if he has not distinguished himself by his own performance.” When the critics or crabs come, keep climbing and soon you’ll be out of their reach.
People have and inordinate need to be liked. We struggle with decisions and worry about the outcome of our actions because we want our actions to reflect what is popular. How many times have you thought to yourself…“What if they don’t like me because I…?” “What if they get upset because I…?” “What if I say the wrong thing and they don’t agree?” What if they do? So what? That is OK! Your climb to the top may be lonely at times. It may not always be aligned with the popular decision and people may not always like you, but the payoff will be worth it in the end.
It takes courage to be successful. It takes courage to not always be popular. It takes courage to become a leader. Be courageous. Don’t let the crabs in the pot, pull you down and boil under pressure.
Robert A. Cook said, “Don’t resent the fact that people check on you; if you weren’t worth anything, they wouldn’t bother.” The crab will try to keep tabs on you. Take that as a compliment, they are envious of your success and want what you have. Use that as motivation to work that much harder!
Shine ON!
Keri
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